Not a KINKAJOU!!!

Ashlyn is our child full of phobias. Thankfully we have been able to convince her out of a few of them, but unless she gets a grip on the world around her, she's going to have a rough life. When we were still in Texas, whenever she would stop stone still and start to scream, we knew a cricket had entered the room. We FINALLY can get her to dip a toe in the swimming pool, which is quite the accomplishment, since she would scream anytime we came near her with a swimming suit at the beginning of the summer. Shiny floors have caused her to break down near the point of hysteria - Wal-Mart, Lowe's, the church gym, etc. She has finally learned to crawl across bridges on playscapes at the park. The holes or cracks were just too much for a long time and still can't be taken standing up. Eric took the kids on a small hike yesterday - in the desert - and said she was loads of fun with her fears of cactus and rocks. Let's not forget about trains, busses, etc. The list goes on, but I think you've got the idea.

Last weekend we went to a ward party at a park that was behind a school, so you had to take a fairly long trail from the parking lot to get to it. By the time we left, it was dark and there was no lighting along the trail. Mine and Eric's arms were full with chairs, blankets, etc., so the kids were forced to walk. Ashlyn was cowering behind - worried that a coyote was going to come out of the Tucson, AZ rain forest - but at least she was moving along. Suddenly she collapsed on the ground, sobbing, and wouldn't move an inch. After several attempts to get her to move along and her only increasing in her hysteria, I finally shifted my load and picked her up to see what the matter was. The only thing I could get out of her was "A kinkajou!" as she pointed and then buried her head against me. Yes, a kinkajou. According to Wikipedia (I can't always keep up with all of the random animals my children come across) it is a nocturnal rainforest mammal, somewhere between a raccoon and a monkey that they describe as "playful, generally quiet and docile." Oh no! Beware of the kinkajou!

International Wildlife Museum

People keep telling me that Tucson has a lot of neat things to see and do, so the other day I ventured out and took the kids to the International Wildlife Museum. It's a museum that is basically a stuffed zoo. They have all kinds of animals - from rhinos to giraffes to lions - with everything else from anywhere else in between. It was neat to see the animals so close and actually get a good look at them. The boys loved it, but it pretty much creeped Ashlyn out. We couldn't even get her to cross the boardwalk to get inside - but we'll save Ashlyn's hundreds of phobias for another day! I couldn't get Carter to pose in front of the bears and we ran through the dark nocturnal room, but other than that it was a lot of fun. It's quite a bit cheaper than all the other museums, too. Come and visit me and I'll take you there! :) We hope to go back again soon.

A little bit of Ashlyn

I had a few cute pictures of Ashlyn, so I decided she would get a showcase all her own. She has finally started getting into dressup - the funnest part of being a little girl (until you have to leave the house), but I can't seem to ever take pictures of her when she's all dolled up in pink tutus. I was going through some of my things and pulled out this nice little number for her to try. This was my FAVORITE outfit when I was a little girl. I found a picture of me in it that I wanted to post with it, but I can't get my scanner working. She liked it for a minute, but unfortunately it doesn't compete with some of her other favorites. It's amazing how different she is than my boys in so many areas. Clothing is definitely one of those areas. She has her own opinion of what she wants to wear and she gets pretty set on it, matching or no. She thinks she's pretty hot stuff, so I let her wear whatever until we have to go out in public.

One of my favorite websites for toddlers is www.starfall.com. It teaches all the letters of the alphabet, beginning reading, and has a few games. Ashlyn is always begging to play "Letters" and since it's not always convenient for me to sit down and help her, she decided to learn how to use the mouse herself. She was pretty proud of herself and so was I!

The other day she was watching a movie and this was the seat she chose. It doesn't look very comfortable to me, but whatever makes her happy!

She's a lot of fun to be around (when she naps!) and we sure do love her!

Camping!

For the last several months, the boys and I have been aching to go camping. But with house hunting, moving, Eric's schedule, and Isaac starting school it has been pretty impossible. Finally the opportunity arose. My brother Cody off handedly invited us to go with him to his ward campout (probably thinking we'd say no :)) and we jumped on it! Lucky guy! So Friday afternoon, a few weeks ago, we met them at their house in Apache Junction and Cody, Em, and us headed up 2 more hours to a place in the pines past Prescott to enjoy the beautiful weather and the great outdoors. It didn't take Isaac long to find a tree to climb. He scaled right up it and several more. I was impressed with how high he got on a couple of them.

Carter and Ashlyn headed straight over to some dirt. It's amazing how fun it can be to just get dirty without anyone caring.

They found a little ditch to slide down its bank. Better than any park!

Sloppy Joes, thanks to Cody's Bishop, was the perfect fit for dinner. Doesn't look too sanitary, does it....

It actually got cold! I loved it until later that night - more to come...

No camping is complete without a smore or two. Here's Carter and Emily roasting marshmallows.

There's nothing like a tent to make kids silly and giddy before bedtime. All apart of the fun of camping!

I tried to pack as light as possible since we were throwing into one vehicle with Cody and Em, so of course I decided to skimp on blankets. Nice one, Aub. I had brought two for myself, plus the kids' sleeping bags, but had to use one for extra covers for the kids, which left me with only one small one. Cody offered to let me use his mummy sleeping bag, but trying to suck it up and pay my own consequences, I refused. I didn't sleep a whole lot that night. Besides nearly freezing to death, I had to take on Eric's role. He's usually the one getting up 50 times a night when we camp to make sure the kids are covered and not cold, but since he wasn't there, the job fell to me. Halfway through the night, Cody had mercy on me and made me switch bedding with him. I was so cold and so grateful I couldn't refuse. It came in handy having the sleeping bag because Ashlyn got too cold a little while later and I was able to bring her in with me. The boys say they slept just fine and Cody said it wasn't too bad for him with the blanket. How? I have no idea, but I'm glad!

After such a fabulous night, Cody was the first one up and graciously took Ashlyn, and later Carter, out with him. Here's Ashlyn eating her pre-breakfast snack from Uncle Cody. Not the most nutritious, but I was so happy to still be in a warm sleeping bag, I didn't care. I was happy she was happy - and besides - it's camping!

Here they are eating their real breakfast.

"Thanks for bring me camping, Uncle Cody. You're the best!"

A boy in their ward brought string to make bows, which was a big hit with the boys. I don't think the poor kid had any idea what he was getting into! Thankfully Cody stepped in to help.

Check out my amazing archers!

Before we left, we went exploring for a little bit. Another family had found this amazing fallen tree with fun roots to climb around on.

We decided it would be best to remove Ashlyn from the picture!

After a wonderful evening and a great day, it was time to wash up and head home. Thanks again so much, Cody and Emily, for allowing us to tag along. We needed it and the kids loved every minute of it.

...We THINK...

The word is getting out more as my tummy is getting out more - but for those who haven't seen me lately, we're expecting baby #4 in January! I'm 21 weeks along, but because of insurance and doctor issues, I've only been to one appointment a couple of weeks ago and won't be to another for at least another month. Except for being sick and getting fatter - it hasn't seemed very real. I guess due to the lack of appointments and opportunities to hear the heartbeat? Whatever the reason, it has made it easy not to shout it from the rooftops. Eric got off work early today and since its Labor Day, he snuck me and the kids (you can imagine how sneaky our parade was) into the vascular lab so we could play with their ultrasound machine. Ultrasound isn't Eric's forte (I think he's played with one once before), but despite Carter's calls for a real Dr. that knows what he's doing, we got a pretty good look at the baby. Finally I really know that something great is in there! Two hands, two feet, big head, four beating chambers of the heart, and we THINK a little extra limb between the legs. Now, given our expertise, that little extra limb could have been the umbilical cord or perhaps an ear. I'm not going to run out and buy anything boy yet, but I am going to get a little crazy and go so far as to start calling the baby "him" and "he" instead of "it." Enjoy the view!

This view is staring up at the rump. The two long side things are the legs and the "extra limb" in the middle is our gender indicator.

Sorry there's no cute profile picture. We tried!

And away he goes...on two wheels!

Carter has been anxious to ride on two wheels for a long time, but he gets really nervous, so it has been a long process overcoming his fears. He has been wishing every wish and even dreaming dreams that he could ride on two wheels. The day finally came! Isaac has been working with him for awhile, but he never wants him to let go. Eric and I let go - and he rides fine - but he stopped letting us help him. The other day one of his training wheels came off and that was all he needed. He built his confidence riding with one and then yesterday morning before school Isaac took off his other one, helped him get started, and away he went - first try. Turning and everything. He was all over the back yard without a problem. He was one excited boy! I have video of it, but our internet can't quite cut uploading it, so this picture will have to do. It's such a good feeling to see your child accomplish something that they've worked so hard for and wanted so badly. These are the times that make motherhood more than worth it.

Oh no she didn't!

....but, alas, she did. Paint. All over my brand new couch. This was exactly (okay, so maybe I didn't have PAINT in mind) why we decided to go with leather. I'm so glad we did! Ashlyn was VERY fortunate that I was able to get it out. If you have my expert trained eye, you can still see some, but I don't think the average Joe would notice it. She is very talented at picking opportune times to get into mischief without being discovered right away. I had the T.V. babysitting her (like all great mothers!) while I was unpacking one of the last few miscellaneous boxes in my room. She came in to say "hi" and hang out for a minute, but then she left. I just didn't happen to notice the bottle of paint she had in her hand as she went. Curse miscellaneous boxes! It could have been worse. I'm so glad it wasn't!